By Tamy Cohen
(mom of
Sadie morning WW and daughter of Barbara “Bapa” Polland)
You've raised an issue that is a topic in our home this year also. Our
daughter, Sadie, is now starting to ask Santa questions. My husband grew up in
a Modern-Orthodox family, and mine was Reformed, so we are having to find our
way with our commitment to Judaism and this Santa issue. I feel so lucky to
have grown up in a home where I was able to have the Santa fantasy. It made me
feel like we were joining in a collective experience. Throughout the year, my
mom would take notes about kind things my brother and I did. The idea was my
mom/Santa became a secret observer of instances that seemingly went unnoticed.
On Christmas morning my brother and I would get a typed letter from Santa,
talking about all of these things he had noticed. I was always surprised that
he knew so much. I felt so seen and appreciated as I read each year's letter. I
have identified with, and felt proud of being a Jew my entire life. Having this
sweet connection with Santa in no way diminished my connection with the Jewish
religion. Sadie is looking forward to eight glowing nights of our Hanukkah
celebrations.
Somewhere
before December 25th, I am hoping my husband will agree to a minimal and
magical touch of Santa in our home. Wish me luck! : )